Some women do experience a lot of pleasure with anal sex. I imagine your wife might be scared she may hurt you, even if she may enjoy doing it to you. You shouldn't have to convince her of anything. Holly is the author of Severe d: I think you take baby steps - if you regularly perform oral on her and if you aren't, you should then get your tongue moving southward so she can feel your tongue in that area. That can spread a shit-ton of germs.
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Page 1 of 5. Get a dildo or even a cucumber about the size of your erect penis and let her use it on you first or watch as you stimulate yourself to heavenly pleasure. Stuff like infection, fecal matter, about fair play ie me ramming a dildo up his butthole, etc. I again got confirmation this weekend when, in general conversation, she mentioned that she would 'never want anything in her that had been in an ass'. If she takes the time to sit down and talk to you about it then that's a sign that not only she loves you but she also cares enough about your sex life.
Or, if you aren't willing to put your tongue there, use a well lubed finger to just circle the outside of her anus while you are performing oral or stimulating her clit with your fingers or a vibrator. OR you could start do doing a trade off of things. But if she wants to remain monogamous, then it's her duty to shoulder all of your sexuality - within reason. To Create A Passionate Marriage - To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 0 or greater.
How can I convince my wife to try anal sex? View All club dates concerts nightclubs. I imagine your wife might be scared she may hurt you, even if she may enjoy doing it to you. I wonder if "most women" don't like it because they've tried it, it was done correctly, and they didn't like it, or because they've never tried it or it was done incorrectly. Miss Taken is offline. Go slow — and be prepared to accept a "no.