For me it's perfect, and everyone's happy. It's a difficult road but we're not alone, without knowing you or your wife, one suggestion I have, as difficult as it may be, is tell her this is something you need. Don't know what to do. Of course, every now and then remember to bring home your wife's favorite flower or a packet of those pens she loves or tickets to that concert she mentioned a few months back. The elephant in the room. All that said, I mean to pose those questions in the gentlest way and I have no idea just how much you communicate so forgive any pre judged sounding comments! We are still relatively young I am 30 and she is 29 and we have been married 4 years, been together about ten.
All the believer are not perfect. Really work to achieve this together and if not at the same time make sure both of you have the option. How are you doing? My wife is done after about 9pm. You are making some clear assumptions here, or, you are invoking some personal experiences into the equations.
You need to say thank you. It would be so much easier than figuring out the opposite sex. I'm glad I signed up, because if nothing else your story has made me realise that I'm not the only one going through that mental torment. I had another talk with my wife the other night while we were in bed. When she leaves don't make her feel guilty, don't ask her to take the baby with her she will if she wants to and don't text or call to ask when she is coming home. It comes out implicitly.